Category: philosophy/religion topics
Hey everyone!
I just have a question that i thoght might be werth wile posting hear..
anyhow, my ex was of the muzlum relijin, like really in too it.
So, he asks me to merrie him, I say yes, and so on and so forth,
we dated for about 2 or 3 months after we got engaged, and then unforchenently broke it off.,*sad face*.
my question is, I herd from sertin sorses that if we would have gottin maried, because i am christion, he would have to convert me? Is that true?
I'm just wondering,
thanks so much,
god bless you all and have a good day..
Morgan-Lynn-Pimentel
oh, and might I add, the only thing that was braught up over this between the 2 of us was, when we first started dating he told me he was muzlum, he wanted to no if i would have a problem with it, Ofcorse I sed no.. then i sed "Do u have a problam with the fact that I am Christion?" he sed no/..
Well if he would have to convert me, wouldnt he have sed something at that moment?? or even at all during the time we were dating?
thanks again,,,
Morgan-Lynn-Pimentel
If you are to be part of his family, and his community then yes, you would probably choose to convert. It's very difficult for two people to work those things out, having different traditional religious backgrounds and then leaving those beliefs to be together. It sounds like it can be done, but people do need their family, friends, social circles; and in order for you guys to have stayed together, those things would of have been ignored by you both.
Unless none of you were very religious to begin with... In that case, there would of been little or no problems in that aspect of your relationship.
I heard of that too. Now, if you are a committed christian, that makes it even more difficult. That's why I only want a christian boyfriend, not that I don'tl ike other eligions or judge them, but because of those many differences.
Hi, I'd like to echo the other posters. I have heard that nonmuslims who want to marry devout Muslims should convert. I too would rather marry a Christian. I commend you for wanting to work things out beforehand. I know religion can be a tricky subject. Especially when it comes to raising children.
As far as both of the partners aint asking anyone to get convert, and as far as both of them have no problem or any difference of opinion with their religious, and as far as both of them are not rigid with their beliefs, I trust there is no need of getting converted.
Raaj.
Yes, but what if one of them gets "rigid" with their beliefs? Then this would become complicated.